Wednesday, January 7, 2009

I Am Not Crazy

Hi everyone! It’s been a while since my last visit to the blog. The last time I wrote in here, I was suicidal. Hehs. Now I am ashamed of it. *blush* Let’s not talk about it anymore. Now is the time for me to make a summarization over things. Mind you people, this is going to be a long entry. I am glad that 2008 is now over. It’s been the worst year ever. 2009 comes together with my hopes that are too many to mention here but basically I am wishing for again, miracles to happen and the whole thing to go in my way. That’s it all.

By the way, I was having fun last week. There were two separate occasions that made me feel alive. One is a secret that I could not tell. The other one is of course of the outings with the darling girl friends. I have decided to spend two days exploring Malacca. So the first day I went to the malls at the heart of the city and went to the ‘Eye On Malaysia, Melaka’ at night. I was filled with fruitful excitement till I cried in my heart. You may understand why I was feeling that way if you know how hard I’ve tried and how long I’ve been waiting to be there. It is included as one of my wish list. (I have this “25-Things-To-Do-Before-I-Reach-25” list and now “Eye On Malaysia” is checked. Thank God.) I actually had been waiting for the moment since last year but nobody wants to accompany me when it was operating at Titiwangsa. And over the time I realized that everybody had gone there with their love ones, and I was left behind. That’s so sad. So the moment I step on the ground where it is located, I was in heaven. I feel that way. Seriously. And the next day I went to the malls again and spent the night sight seeing 'The Jonker Walk' and the city at night. Here are some photos to be shared.






OK, I am now facing a problem regarding my sociolinguistic class. Last week my lecturer asked the whole class to create a postcard-sized ID consisting of the name, address, phone number, the GPA and CGPA, and also the goals, just to get to know the students better, said the lecturer. I do think that it's a good idea that I might be applying too if I happen to teach in the future. I was quite excited to create the ID card but to think of the goal again make me want to vomit. What? Goal? I am dead. I’d left all the goals behind, remember? That now I am planning to just go with the flow without having to worry of any goal to be reached. I am stuck with that thing up to this very moment and tomorrow morning I am supposed to hand that thing in. What should I put in that ‘goals’ column? Should I write “I am giving myself a chance to find my one until I reach thirty. If I don’t get married by thirty years old, I am not going to marry at all. I will be adopting a baby girl that will be named with a beautiful name like Marissa Sofea, and will be raising her up alone because I’d just realized that babies give me tranquility. The last time I was depressed, my little cousin Alya had been the remedy. (I attached the video at the bottom of this post just in case you are interested in having a look at it.) Then maybe I will pursue my second degree in the field that I am into all these while, I don’t mind if I will not pass with flying colors because my Science subjects are rusty, but as long as I have the chance to be in that line, I will be grateful enough. Or maybe I should have a master in management or tourism so that I can travel around the world. (Is that possible? To jump from a line that has got nothing to do with tourism at all?) My next goal is to own a Mercedes. I wish I could pay back my loan in five years time instead of fifteen years as scheduled so I could devote my salary for that Mercedes before I die, or else I will die with a lot of regrets within me, not getting married, not having my own Mercedes and so on and end up being a loser for my whole life. Oh no! But I don’t think I could make it in five years, considering the fact that I will be making only 2K in a month as a fresh graduate and quarter of it will go to my parents since I am spending their money, a lot of it, plus I am the eldest of four. I have a huge responsibility of everything. Then RM200 will have to be spent on the loan. I might want to save a small portion of my salary too for future use (if and only if I have a future.) as well for my other expenses like food and utility bills. And the list goes on and on.” Should I? Of course it’s a NO. Haisy. What should I be putting in? Think Syahirah, think!
One more thing that I’ve just realized of myself is that I am now being super sensitive towards things. Of what you say to me, of what you do, directly or indirectly, consciously or unconsciously, etc. It’s hard for me to forgive and forget too. Initially I thought of being heartless that I would not care of those things but now I am becoming the old, super sensitive me. Every little thing counts now. This drags to the change in my mood. My mood swings more often now. Haisy. I am also being able to tolerate with some shades of blue color now. In fact, I bought myself a blue scarf yesterday. I wonder why I am behaving like this. Is it a sign of adulthood? At this moment, I have a thought of being quiet again because I think people lost respect over the talkative me. (That's what my father taught my mother since she's a talkative too.) Plus I might bore them to death too. Maybe I should keep my distant. Perhaps I should be asking myself “Why on earth would they be interested in knowing this?” everytime I have things to tell so that will keep my mouth shut. In my research method class, it says that everyone has opinions. So I think there’s nothing wrong to share your opinion but for me, I am going to share it here, so that I won’t bother other people who are not interested in the business I am into. I will start being quiet by tomorrow. And be more optimistic. Hopefully.

14 comments:

chi am said...

yes. becoz.. sharing is caring kan? some say laaah..

Baqlish Firdaus said...

just hope dat u will be happy always.. sometimes thing dat we expect does not come as we wish but the thing that we never dream of will come and make whole a lot of different.. and hopefully with an additional bundle of happiness as a free gift..

pphoenix said...

sometimes what you tell others today might not be the thing that they need to know today. but maybe it will in the future.

everybody's words and thoughts are lessons to everybody else.

cheer up!

moQ a said...

wanna be a quiet person??
OMG!that's really NOT syahirah.
aiyoh,my arab class will be DULL..hukhuk

btw..yeah,maybe that's the sign of adulthood..
alamak!!xlame lagik kene kawen nih..lalala...

Qasiyh said...

Goals???
i pon belum determined lagi...
aiyo...

do read my latest entry ya,kekejaman Guangzhou ke atas kucing

mineral oil said...

nnti nak tumpang kete u taw...hehe

SyAhiRah LaLAla said...

chi am: ah. sharing is always caring. but not to share the significant other. not to me la. what say u?

baqlish firdaus: yeah. to make me feel better,,i always have to remind myself that maybe God has a better plan for me. hopefully la.

pphoenix: tq girl :) i do think that way too. but not for some people that i know. so maybe i should just shut up. isk. btw,,i am requesting an access to ur blog. would u let me in? tq. hiks :D

moQ a: that's really not me but that WAS me back then. I used to be one. don't be suprised if I switch to silent mode one day. hahaha. saiko tak? ala,,meriah sajek kelas arab kamu tu syg. kita kan dah ada ramai classmates baru [mesti moQ a rasa nak sembelih syahirah sekarang jugak kan? hehs.]
oh syahirah dah tua. i see myself as an adult now. due to a lot of things,,so yes i am an adult. ouh. kawin? amin...[harap-harap kawinlah.kamu juga.nanti mahu jadi pengapit kamu bolehkah? *giggles paling gedik sekali*]

qasiyh: ah,,u better point out ur goals by now adik. my lecturers semua menjadi2 minta kami buat kad and state all the goals u want to achieve in life. end up i wrote things that are too general while they were expecting something that is more specific. mesti lecturer pun rasa macam nak goreng jek budak tiada goal in life ini. isk :-s

mineraloil: kete? hahaha. dream on darling. dream on. we can always dream aite? [berdoalah abah i jadi dato' takpun tetiba ada org kaya bermurah hati belanja i kete sebijik. realistik nya impian i. oh.]

eryzal zainal said...

happy new year.hav a good one~!

*katakan taknak!utk jiwa gelombang huruhara.

haishangin!

apei budak kampung said...

selamat tahun baru.

Qasiyh said...

i x tau nak keje mcm mane lps abes blaja...
since prospect keje luas sgt i can't choose...

xeea said...

for me, new year is just like the other year.

sigh.

The Chromatic Design.. said...

we have same subjects dis sem i guessed... bole la share anythg..

wan said...

eye on malaysia? good luck for the other; watever inside the checklist

SyAhiRah LaLAla said...

eryzal zainal: happy new year too eryzal. same goes to u :)
oh tak nak! *dah kata* :D

apei budak kampung: selamat tahun baru juga apei :)

qasiyh: ah,,maybe u shud have a list of ur preference. kot la adik. i myself pn huruhara lg. but it's good to know that ur field has a bright future. good for u adik. all the best! ;)

xeea: oh,,why is it so? i wish u will have a great and wonderful year,,amin :)

the chromatic design: oh really? boleh sajek. share articles on sociolinguistics ke kn. haha.

wan: hiks,,thank you! wishing u a good luck too :)